I been in this so called friendly relationship with a guy who is 5 years older than me.
I really want him and a relationship with him. But he just doesn't want one.
We have a sexual/close friend thing going.
And every time I tell him I'm done with this thing we have, he always pulls me back.
I always question what he considers me as.
I have ignored my moral values cause of him.
and have made an exeption for everything he has put me through.
I thought with time he would be with me but I'm sick and tired of playing by his rules.
how do I end it once and for all??

I would tell him that you're looking for a relationship and because he cannot give you that, you're no longer going to see him. Stand firm, do it over the phone or through text.. whatever you do, DO NOT see him in person. The reason for this is that your emotions will be running while you're telling him you no longer want this and he'll be able to touch you and sweet talk you back into this pseudo relationship that you have going which you're clearly not happy with.

If you really want to end it, just end it. Erase him from your life, change your number, delete him from myspace/facebook and IMs, everything! It sounds to me that he's just happy being friends with benefits and will NEVER commit - if that's not something you want, don't let him take advantage of you any longer!

He wants someone that he can call and get what he wants. You're giving him that, why would he want to complicate things more? He's hurting you and you're letting him. NO CONTACT is best, just don't answer calls, texts, emails, IM's, anything. Don't talk to him, and let your heart heal. And give your heart to someone that will cherish it, and treat you right.

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She is 14, that makes him 19, so having sex between them is against the law.