Adult Son going through divorce & won't talk to family
My 31 year old son is going through a divorce. After just 2.5 years of marriage, his wife decided they weren't on the same page. He is a very handsome, protective, giving man and was husband. He has always been thoughtful and loving to his sister, dad, stepdad, aunts/uncles and especially me. He is the oldest and only son. We have always been close and able to talk. He is currently living with his only sister. They have always been the best of friends, protective of each other and supportive. The hard part comes with his divorce, after 3 months of separation, he has shut down. He has not spoken to anyone, including his sister, in the family. He does hang out with a few friends. I have called, left messages, called, no messages... he doesn't answer or return calls. I tried once to reach him at work. He answered. Heard my voice and informed me he was at work. I asked if he would return the call... he promised he would and didn't. This has been going on for 3 months. I am at a loss as are his dad and the remaining family to whom he has always been close.
I know he is angry & hurt, but why is he taking his grief out on those who love him and support him?