Hi I'm new to this. I'm 14 years old and about 4 weeks ago me and my boyfriend had sex then he took the condom off and we did it again. I was on my period a couple days before. Then I believe I stopped but then like 2 days later we had sex again and I started bleeding. This happened twice. I really want to no if I'm pregnant or not I'm not so close to my mom but she's all I have, I have goals and I don't want this to ruin them. I'm really scared about the whole thing I don't know what to do.I haven't had my period yet and its been almost a whole month.:confused:

Just to be on the safe side, you might want to go get a pregnancy test

Go to see your doctor as soon as possible. I hate to moralize, but you have your whole life ahead of you, and you shouldn't be having sex so young.

Having sex makes you pregnant, even with a condom there is a very small chance without one there is a much larger.
But then there can be other reasons, it is a waiting game, and time to test.
I don't approve of children having sex, but if you plan on it, talk with your mom and get on birth control

Having sex without condom... u should know that u can get pregnant... therefore u can test in a couple of weeks and if u are... better talk to yr mom about it.. good luck

''a baby does not ruin ones future''

Even if you don't tell your mom, if you are pregnant, I think she might notice your stomach getting bigger

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even if you dont tell your mom, if you are pregnant, I think she might notice yuor stomach getting bigger

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Yeah that's what I'm afraid of.me and her are far away from ever being close relationship wise.

Maybe you should think about your actions a little more in the future... whether you are pregnant or not. You mentioned that you have your whole life ahead of you and are worried about how it would affect your already damaged relationship with your mother. I know you are only 14 but when I was 14 I knew to use a condom. That was just common sense. If you have no common sense, you shouldn't be allowed to reproduce in the first place. I don't mean to get harsh but some things can't be said very subtle. I think it's time for some tough love. Stop being stupid with your body and your life and start taking responsibility for yourself... I believe you are old enough to understand at least that much.

Don't want to give you any hopes here, but if you are anywhere else apart from the US... you're done for if you are pregnant. TALK to your mother as soon as possible.

Don't take it as a harsh reply. I have seen this happen to my friends.

I'm going to pretty much agree with what everyone said. I don't know why you're having sex at 14. Don't you think you're a little too young? You should get a birth control test and talk to your mom as soon as possible. Even if you aren't pregnant, tell your mom a good option is the pill. I'm not saying I agree with someone you're age having sex,but if you're going to have sex then get yourself on the pill and make sure your partner is wear a condom. This isn't a game, your whole life can change from having a baby when still in Junior high. Or even high school. Sorry to scare you, but talk to your mother!