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  • Feb 27, 2009, 06:15 AM
    Lucylou1128
    Why is he doing this?
    Me and my boyfriend broke up. I don't know why he can't tell me. Its been a month and a half now and lately everywhere I go he is there. When I go to work he drives by. I do work in town but he never took that road even when we did date he would take the back rode. The other day I was meeting someone at a store parking lot to get directions and he pulled in like 5 secs. Atfer I did. The only thing I can think of that he's doing it to upset me or that its all coincidence but this has been going on for about 3 weeks now.
  • Feb 27, 2009, 06:38 AM
    talaniman

    Why did you break up?
  • Feb 27, 2009, 09:08 AM
    MiSSsy111222

    Its not that he can't tell you- he won't tell you. Sounds suspicious to me.
  • Feb 27, 2009, 10:51 AM
    jaxz16
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by MiSSsy111222 View Post
    its not that he can't tell you- he wont tell you. sounds suspicious to me.
    Yes it does.
  • Feb 27, 2009, 08:17 PM
    Lucylou1128

    He can't tell me. I've tried to talk to him about it and he's being very immature aboout it. We dated for 7 months. I told him that I thought we needed a break and he said no that it was over. He won't talk to me and I thought maybe he was just mad and needed some time to get over it but he still won't talk to me and he acts completely over me. But like I said lately he is everywhere he knows I will be. He even drove by my school right after I got out. I don't know what to do because I like see him it makes me think that its because of me but I don't know... he acts like he hates me...
  • Feb 28, 2009, 03:26 AM
    MiSSsy111222

    No you have it wrong, he has the choice to tell you but he wont- as for him being everywhere, just ignore him. Act like he doesn't exist.

    As for him acting like he is over you- maybe he is or maybe its an act. Who cares? He is imature and he has hurt you. Time to move on. Improve yourself, go NC. Time is a great healer.
  • Feb 28, 2009, 07:57 AM
    talaniman
    He thought you rejected him, so he rejects you. He didn't want to though, and he was only protecting his fragile ego. His stalking is not right though, and you better be aware of him being around, so you can protect yourself.

    There is no telling what he is seeing, and feeling, or how he will handle himself. Tell someone so they can keep an eye out for you, just in case.
  • Feb 28, 2009, 01:02 PM
    peytpeyt13
    Maybe he's not over you. Maybe he is afraid to tell you the truth because it might hurt you. And he probably doesn't want to say sorry even though it's the right thing to do because he knows you won't forgive him. Either that or he is stalking you:) haha just kidding. Maybe he's just lost without you. And he made a mistake by letting you go. And it probably took him some time to realize what he lost.
  • Feb 28, 2009, 07:28 PM
    Lucylou1128

    Yea. See since me and him have broken up we have spoken once. And it was HORRIBLE!! He said a lot of stuff that I don't think he meant, but if he was having second thoughts about me then I think he would say something to me, not just stalk me around.
  • Feb 28, 2009, 07:36 PM
    KatieLynn_31892
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by MiSSsy111222 View Post
    its not that he can't tell you- he wont tell you. sounds suspicious to me.
    Yes it sounds VERY suspicious. I would try to figure out why he is everywhere you are...

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