I like this girl and she said she liked me and we went out for a couple days but we broke up because she said she didn't like to hold hands or anything even though she said I could. Then she spoke behind my back to another one of my friends who also "likes" not loves her, and said that it was just a 3 day trial. I was like so am I just a tool that you can use for 3 days and then just throw away! I didn't actually say that but I was thinking it when I heard it. I really really like her, she is one of the nices people I know, she has a 4.0 grade point average going to honors college and is president of the national honor society. And there is this guy who makes out with his girlfriend in the hallway and flirts with the girl I like at the same time and says negative things about his girlfriend and the girl I like thinks its amusing.. doesnt that seem odd? I really need some good advice please help
She tells me she likes me but that isn't the thing I am seeing

You said that she is one of the nicest people you have met. She doesn't sound very nice. She said that she gave you a three day trial? What are Pro active? If I were you I would just ditch her and move on. You don't need that extra drama in your life.

Yeah your probably right its just I really really like her you know? But your right that is way too much drama, and I really don't need it and I wanted to tell someone but no one would listen to me. Thanks

Hi, rckr4life!

It would be much healthier to seek out those who don't play games with others or use them but are honest and upfront about the way that they feel with the person with whom they are in a relationship. I know that it might be hard to tell which ones might do that, but once they start, it's best to move on and not lose any sleep over it.

There's lots of "fish in the sea", and I'm sure that you'll find the one that's just right for you, eventually.

Thanks!

You might like her a lot, but from a third person's point of view, she does not seem like a very nice person. She does not seem considerate of your feelings. Furthermore, she does not seem considerate of the feelings of flirty guy's girlfriend.

I'm sure you can find someone just as nice as her and more considerate of the people around her.