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  • Feb 26, 2009, 03:00 AM
    xtnmdline
    How will I know if he really loves me?
    Hello guys. I'm new here and I've been asking this question a lot to my friends, they all say yes but I just want to ask for sure.

    So, I have this classmate, a guy who I truly have a crush on. The reason why I crush on him is because we had same interests, we always talked, he tell me his secrets and I do too, and we treat each others very nicely.

    But one Tuesday, things really changed, not REALLY but there were things that didn't seem like before. He looks at me more than he did, he keeps crossing my front or path, he seems to be near all the time, seems to find a way that he would talk to me, look a little nervous when we talk, it seems that he tries to make me laugh, he pinches me then pretends that it wasn't him, and like earlier, I was just drawing letters, then shading them, he suddenly said, "The one who is shading letters is bored!" And he was just behind me.
    I love looking into his eyes while we are talking.. they are cute and small.. even smaller when he laughs.. :)

    I'm not sure, it might be that we are only close friends, it just SUDDENLY started.

    And I remember last night, we were chatting with his elder sister, she said that my crush told her that he wanted me to put on the webcam. I didn't, because it might be a joke or something. Later on, she signed out and my crush signed in. The first thing he said was, "Wecbam," then messages like aksjdh asjkhdaksdhn kajdh akdh...

    I don't know, :D

    Well, I would LOVE your reply and help...

    Thanks anyway..

    MWAHUGS. :*
    :D:)
  • Feb 26, 2009, 04:41 AM
    neverme

    Ya, I'd say he likes you, he doesn't LOVE you I'm sure as your title suggests!

    But you know the only way to know, ask him. Or tell him that you like him and see what he says.

    I'd bet that he does though.

    Best of Luck.
  • Feb 26, 2009, 05:35 AM
    talaniman

    I think your both to young for love, but have crushes on each other. That's not a bad thing at all. Have fun.
  • Feb 26, 2009, 07:02 AM
    Romefalls19

    Like yes, love no. Too early for it to be love
  • Feb 28, 2009, 08:25 PM
    xtnmdline

    Oh yeah. Id rather mean how will I know if he likes me.
    Sorry. >.<
  • Feb 28, 2009, 08:35 PM
    xtnmdline
    How can I show that I like him through actions?
    Threads merged and edited.

    But anyway, all I do is looking at him all the time. That's all. Should I do the things he does too? Like crossing my path many times, and all those things?

    The only problem about him is that he says he has another girlfriend, but then other times he says he doesn't. I just want to be sure first before doing anything else, because I might just embarrass myself. The only reason why I ask these questions are because I want to know if he feels something, or if there are feelings or just something else. I don't dare to ask yet, because I don't know where it might get.

    So, that's all. :)
  • Feb 28, 2009, 08:54 PM
    talaniman

    Build a bond with him through conversation, that's the best way to get to know someone, and learn about them. How can he feel as you do if you don't interact together in some way? Just staring will get you no where, so try conversation... about anything but feelings, like school activities, classes, friends, hobbies, just ordinary conversation.

    Then you can see how he acts toward you, and around you, and see where it goes.
  • Feb 28, 2009, 10:39 PM
    sparkplug24

    Tell him to do something for you that would be embarrassing for him and you will know if he likes you! But beware never let him know that there was a test, It could back fire..
  • Mar 1, 2009, 06:33 PM
    neverme

    Sorry comp fecked up... could try somwthing like walking on hot coals!

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