My boyfriend and I have started to get "closer" and one night, while trying to "respect me" I playfully tortured him, by trying to kiss him, and turn him on. He told me he had enjoyed the torture, and that it would be fun to do again sometime.. but I'm not sure exactly what to do.. I really love him, but I have trouble getting close to people, especially physically, and I worry if I strip or even show a little bra, that he'll take it as sluttish. Some days, he acts as if he likes it wild, and others he seems to want to "respect me" I'm getting such mixed signals and I have no idea what to do...

Hey there unsure,
There is nothing wrong with a little play. It is nice to spice thing up a tad. The best thing for you to do is to talk/communicate with him. Ask him what he likes and what he doesn't like. The two key things in a realationship is trust and communication. Then that way you both will know where you stand. Just keep in mind that you are not being slutty by showing him a little skin. ;)

Kkz, thank youz :)