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  • Aug 20, 2006, 10:26 AM
    wanaknow
    What Do Guys Hate in a Girl?
    Soooooooo Guys... tell me what do you hate in your PERFECT Girl?

    'n what do you Love as well ?
  • Aug 20, 2006, 07:10 PM
    chuff
    Here's what I hate
    1. Most of all Lying.
    2. Complaining. I understand we all complain sometimes but some women just complain for no reason and I think they actually enjoy it but it sure does bring me down.
    3. Stupidity. Some girls you talk to and you seriously wonder how they made it past 3rd grade. I was talking a girl once who told me she was from, "the state of Chicago." I repeated that again, back to her to give her the chance to correct herself. She just said, "yep." I just couldn't believe it. It was kind of a turnoff.
    4. Games. We are forced to play them I guess, but I hate them.
    5. Someone who asks for your advice but then never takes it. If you don't want it don't ask for it.
    6. Girls that answer everything with "yeah" or "no." Feel free to follow up with an actual sentence.
    7. Girls that smoother you. Give me some space because I don't want you around all the time. It doesn't mean I don't like you, it just means I like to do things for myself.
    8. Women that start arguments for no apparent reason.
    9. Women that expect gifts from a man.
    10. In that very same category, when you get something from a man and show no appreciation for the gift that you got.
  • Aug 22, 2006, 04:17 AM
    Krs
    Right OK...

    My comments re your pointers chuff ;).

    1. I don't lie to my hubby, if you LOVE someone you don't lie, it's a simple as that.
    2. Most of the times when a women complains, there a reason why we do, besides women are hormonal and men just don't understand that :)
    3. stupidity - same goes for men too!
    4. Games - Vice Versa ;)
    5. Women like to listen... men don't understand that.
    6. same as men
    7. same as men too
    8. there's ALWAYS a reason... but as I said above... men don't always understand us.
    9. Men expect gifts too. But the trick is - expect nothing of no one.
    10. Well if any women does that then she isn't worthed ;)
  • Aug 22, 2006, 05:26 AM
    Krs
    Thanks Val, I agree too :)
  • Aug 22, 2006, 06:08 AM
    blueiman
    Read my posts...
  • Aug 22, 2006, 06:14 AM
    Krs
    Who? Me?
  • Aug 22, 2006, 06:17 AM
    blueiman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Krs
    who? me?

    Anyone...
  • Aug 22, 2006, 06:19 AM
    NeedKarma
    Hate in a girl:
    - Tattoos and body piercings
    - intolerance
    - dishonesty
  • Aug 22, 2006, 06:20 AM
    Krs
    I hate :-
    Jack the lads...
  • Aug 22, 2006, 06:21 AM
    Krs
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by blueiman
    anyone...

    You have loads of posts with plenty of great answers.
  • Aug 22, 2006, 06:22 AM
    Krs
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NeedKarma
    Hate in a girl:
    - Tattoos and body piercings
    - intolerance
    - dishonesty

    All tattoos?
    How about just 1 small one?
  • Aug 22, 2006, 06:25 AM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Krs
    All tattoos?
    How about just 1 small one?

    Good point. It's the large publicly visible ones I don't like: on the arms/legs, especially the tramp stamps on the lower back. A small one placed where only your lover could find it (hehe) is cool since I have exactly that and I don't want to appear the hypocrite.
  • Aug 22, 2006, 06:26 AM
    chuff
    Krs,

    None of that was meant a personal attack... I felt the poster was asking for advice on how to better understand men and I was giving her my honest feedback. Of course it goes both ways it's just that woman are evil.












    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. That was a joke people don't attack me.
  • Aug 22, 2006, 06:29 AM
    Krs
    Chuff I know that don't worry :)

    I just felt the urge to reply!

    :p men can be evil too..
  • Aug 22, 2006, 06:30 AM
    Krs
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NeedKarma
    Good point. It's the large publicly visible ones I don't like: on the arms/legs, especially the tramp stamps on the lower back. A small one placed where only your lover could find it (hehe) is cool since I have exactly that and I don't want to appear the hypocrite.

    Lower back tattoos are great.
    I want to get one, and I also would like a very smaller one on my neck!
    Hubby disapproves big time.
    I also had my belly pierced ( when I was 18 ) now I've long got rid of that ;)
  • Aug 22, 2006, 06:32 AM
    blueiman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Krs
    You have loads of posts with plenty of great answers.

    Thanks. You got it. My posts are directed to help others who can't imagine what goes on in relationships. Some people here just read them but may not be able to share their experiences. Most of my posts are not my own but some people here asked me to stop talking about other peoples problems and just discuss my own. The last few months have been related to my own experiences. But I'm going back to what if... and what would you do...
  • Aug 22, 2006, 06:34 AM
    Krs
    Talking and express feelings can be the best therapy ever!

    What do u mean going back to what if etc?
  • Aug 22, 2006, 06:36 AM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Krs
    Lower back tattoos are great.
    I wanna get one

    That fad has passed. Now everyone is wearing Crocs and that will pass too except you can throw the shoes away but you're stuck with the tat. The 20 year olds with the large bore piercings and the big tats are going to look stupid in a few years when it's time to look for a corporate job. Some of those moms with 2 kids are already looking a little silly with their lower back tat peaking out. That's just my opinion of course but their probably a reason your hubby is against it, we probably have the same views.
  • Aug 22, 2006, 06:39 AM
    blueiman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Krs
    Talking and express feelings can be the best therapy ever!

    what do u mean going back to what if etc?

    I'm going back to what if... I have so many friends that have experienced all kinds of issues and I plan to cont with there stories with their approval of course. My own problems I can deal with but many people here don't think I can. You don't really know me at all.
  • Aug 22, 2006, 06:54 AM
    Krs
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NeedKarma
    That fad has passed. Now everyone is wearing Crocs and that will pass too except you can throw the shoes away but you're stuck with the tat. The 20 year olds with the large bore piercings and the big tats are going to look stupid in a few years when it's time to look for a corporate job. Some of those moms with 2 kids are already looking a little silly with their lower back tat peaking out. That's just my opinion of course but their probably a reason your hubby is against it, we probably have the same views.

    Yep NK I think you do actually :)

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