I have been married for a little over 2 years now and my husband and I have one child together. Lately I have been questioning whether I am still in Love with him. I dream about running away or what it would be like to cheat but I wouldn't because I love my daughter too much to running away from her and I don't think I could cheat. He just doesn't make me happy nor do I have that he's so hot feeling anymore. He always wants to be on me whenever I am in the middle of doing something, cooking, cleaning, whatever you name it and he's there. I thought about see a Psychologist or something but our insurance will only cover it if you have mental issues, so that is out of the question, because it is to expensive. I can't talk to him because it is like talking to myself because he never answers back, I always have to say ha or what or his name to get him to say something back, like he isn't even listening to me, so talking does help, it just makes me irritated. I guess I don't now what to do. Is this normal? Any suggestions?

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Originally Posted by JBS382

I have been married for a little over 2 years now and my husband and I have one child together. Lately I have been questioning whether or not I am still in Love with him. I dream about running away or what it would be like to cheat but I wouldn't because I love my daughter to much to running away from her and I don't think I could cheat. He just doesn't make me happy nor do I have that he's so hot feeling anymore. He always wants to be on me whenever I am in the middle of doing something, cooking, cleaning, whatever you name it and he's there. I thought about see a Psychologist or something but our insurance will only cover it if you have mental issues, so that is out of the question, because it is to expensive. I can't talk to him because it is like talking to myself because he never answers back, I always have to say ha or what or his name to get him to say something back, like he isn't even listening to me, so talking does help, it just makes me irritated. I guess I don't now what to do. Is this normal? Any suggestions?

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I felt the same way for someone and the feelings to not get better for me but that does not mean it won't for you. You really have to want to work on the problem to change what's wrong it takes both of you to fix it. We all go through bad times in a relationship and things to get better.

A man who always pesters a woman while she is busy doing her jobs in the house, in the middle of something important, has power and control issues at least. He is in the wrong for this kind of irritating *immature* behavior.

He needs a good talking to by another man on how to treat his wife like a loving partner. Clergy available?

He is a weak man and unsure of himself, perhaps jealous of the baby. I don't blame you for wanting to run away from him.

Some help is needed to save your marriage, professional help, because of your husband, help from clergy, couple's therapy, something.

Best wishes to you,