Hi, well I am 31 years old, I am looking to get married as soon as possible cause I can't live single for long time, ineed women in my life, I don't go out like clubing also I don't have family I can ask them for help or friends.
I tried many marrige website but no one is working either you have to pay or you find the website useless.
So I need some advices by the way I am living in uk.

I think the first step is to be friends, then date, then have an engagement period, THEN get married. You're only 31, no need to act like this is something that HAS to happen right away...

Free Online Dating at Plentyoffish.com™ is a great website. So is MySpace

Also, what about social events? Church? Speed dating?

Well depends on where you live.

1. find an arranged marriage between your family and another family

2, buy one

But of course you need to first learn to be happy with you, if you can't live on your own, you are not ready to live with someone

A forced marriage will never be a happy marriage. The most important factor is love, and you can't buy that. It will inevitably end in failure and you will only be worse for it. If you are lonely, until that special somebody comes along why don't you try adopting a dog? A dog will love you, and its not nearly the hassle of an unhappy marriage.

Dude why do you have to get married right away? What's the rush. Your 31 not 81 you have time. Lol I only laugh because I am married and it is hard, trust me. Don't get me wrong I love my husband, but relax. Besides make sure you find the right person. You will be fine. :)