Last night I didn't get ay sleep instead my husband says he wants a divorce. In the middle of wal-mart and then to come his parents had told him several of times to leave me and as well as his so called best friend. We were up all night fusing about everything. He was told that I was ing around and its not true I have no time at all to be doing anything we have a 3 yr old who I have 24-7 and I watch a baby from 7:30 am until 5 sometimes 5:30 by the time his mom comes and get him I am exahusted and the last thing that is on my mind is ing around... for the past few yrs things have gotten worse and when I try to talk to him about it he says there is nothing wrong with what he does or that he is sorry and then a week later he is at it again... he is always reading over my shoulder when I am on the computer he follows me every where in the house. He tells me he loves me but he has no emotion when he says it its like looking at a blank wall. When things started to get really bad was on new years eve when I asked him why he loved me he says "because you put up with my ". That's when I blew upo and told him that I was no longer in love with him that I hate him. I have so much resentment towards him because of all the promises he made (getting me legal (I'm from canada) so I can finish law school and work) I have put up with him going on cruises with out me (according to his mother I am not family) getting tattoos when we don't have the funds letting him do what he wanted with out commplaint. Now these past few months I am getting things in order tp take my son back to canada where I can give him the life I know I can and I don't have to reley on a man. He keeps telling me that either I love him or leave then he plays mind games with me and the whole time its like looking at a blank canvas. I told him I would give him 30 days. Am I doing the right thing or should I just give up all hope and take my son and leave. Any advice is good please