OK. So like I have had a girlfriend before but she would always ask me why we would never have sex. I really never told her the answer. I have gay porn and there are men I like. I'm not sure if that makes me gay or bi? I don't want to be gay or bi (no offense) but I can't help masturbating to gay porn. What am I?

If you are attracted to girls and guys both you are bi... but if you are not attracted to girls you are gay.. but considering you have a girlfriend I'm thinking you are interested in girls also..

If you like both girls and guys you are bisexual

What age are you?


Why do you feel the need to make this huge decision on your sexuality in your teens?

The answers will come to you as you grow up. Don't try to force it.

You can tell your girlfriend that you aren't ready for sex, because obviously you are not. No one, male or female, should be pressured into having sex if they don't feel 200% comfortable. It does not make you less or more of a man, for that fact neither does bisexuality or being gay. But you'll find these answers to be true yourself in time.

If you allow anyone to coerce you into anything you don't feel comfortable with you will regret it when your older.