Advice needed on saving my marriage.
Hello,
I'll begin by saying that my husband (15 years) was having an emotion affair, but he says he loves me and wants to be happy with me again. I was blind-sided by this happening as I have always felt secure and happy.
I'm trying very hard to be understanding as I am deeply in love with him, and I have found it in my heart to forgive him.
The newness and excitement of an affair and the flattery is hard to compete with or recreate, and I'm hoping that there may be those of you out there that could give me some tips so that I can stay myself but explore new options and not go back to the same ways that lead him to stray.
From what I gathered so far, it's not about the physical aspect, it's about the attention and him feeling that he was put on a pedestal by the other person.
Please let me know your advice, as I'm open to suggestions.