I don't know how to deal with the feelings. First I want to end it because he is married then I don't because he's a really good person. I've known him for a year before we even knew how each other felt. Can anybody give me insight on how I should handle this?
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Hes not a good person if he's married and involved with you. Don't be a home wrecker or his side dish. He most likely won't break his marriage just to be with you, unless he has no feelings for his wife and plans on divorcing her. You should break this off now and find someone more honest and single. You're not going to have trust for him anyway if he does divorce his wife and gets with you. How do you know he won't be involved with someone else when he's with you?

Heartboke couldn't be more right.

He's not a good person.. he's cheating on his wife.

He doesn't care about you.. if he did he wouldn't be putting you through all of this emotional trauma.

So walk away I guarantee you you will regret this.

Im pretty good with evaluation when I'm not in it, but when its my own problem I'm blind. I agree to walk away as well. Take yourself out of this situation and keep yourself out of it. No good will come out if you stick around

We're all good when we're looking into the box! That's exactly why a site like this works so well :D

You know there was this old country song that said

"if she wants a man who'll take the ring off of his hand and then turn around and say that he'll be true then she deserves you"

Do you want to be that person. How could you trust a man that is willing to walk away from his marriage. You already know he does not take his marriage vows seriously.

Walk away, don't be a home wrecker. What your doing is not right, I think you know that in your heart. Move on and find someone that is single.

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Originally Posted by angerod

First I want to end it because he is married then I don't because he's a really good person.

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A good man doesn't cheat on his wife!!

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angerod;1559035, "I'm seeing a married man", don't know how to deal with the feelings.

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Yes you do, be honest you know exactly what to do but don't want to. Stop having sex! Simple!

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First I want to end it because he is married

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Told you you knew what you should do, stop having sex with him, that simple!

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then I don't because he's a really good person.

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Thats a lame excuse for a guy who cheats on his wife, stop having sex with him!
Stop having sex with him!!!

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I've known him for a year before we even knew how each other felt

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So you knew he was married and you didn't have to be lied to?? No sob story about how the wife doesn't understand??
Stop having sex with him!!!

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Can anybody give me insight on how I should handle this?
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Stop having sex with him!!! Then he will leave you alone, and pursue another dilly bar who will give him sex.

Sorry to be harsh, but you have control over your actions, so stop letting your feelings be your excuse.

I had to spread it Tal, but that advice is perfect