My boyfriend and I started going out... we had sex... and now he won't talk to me. He goes over and talks to his other friend but won't talk to me. :( I don't know what I did because sex was what he wanted. Why the hell is he ignoring me now. I don't understand it. Please... can someone help me out?? :(

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Originally Posted by alexlovesme2112

My boyfriend and I started going out...we had sex...and now he won't talk to me. He goes over and talks to his other friend but won't talk to me. :( I don't know what i did because sex was what he wanted. Why the hell is he ignoring me now. I don't understand it. please...can someone help me out??????:(

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Looks like he got what he wanted, and is done with you... sorry to be harsh

He doesn't sound like a boyfriend to me and maybe he never was. However you said it best when you wrote "I don't know what i did because sex was what he wanted". If you knew he wanted this why did you do it? In hopes of making him happy or staying?

This guy only wanted one thing from you and that was sex and after he got it he cut you off. So it isn't that hard to understand but I think your having a hard time accepting it because you wanted more. We live and we learn than move on.

Perhaps spending a little more time on your legs rather than spreading them would reach better prospect of relationships

Even though the above might sound harsh it is true. If you knew about what he wanted you from you then it was pretty foolish to go ahead with it. If you didn't well, now you do; so its better to move on with life and not dwindle over such experiences.

Boys are generally immature and selfish and will tell a girl anything to get what they want.There are driven by hormones and no conscience.
Take this as a lesson learned and save yourself for someone who will respect you.You also need to respect yourself and stand up for what you know is right for you.

Well I wouldn't call this guy your boyfriend. Forget this guy, and learn from your mistake.

You know whatnall he wanted was sex I be before doing it he promise u da moon n da stars send him to hell him u can do better!

He wanted sex, you gave it to him, he got what he wanted, and that was all he wanted. He will be back, when he wants more sex, don't worry!

Did he at least thank you?

Ya he got what he wanted. Maybe he didn't like it. Who knows? Your body is a sanctuary, treat it with more respect and people will have more respect for you not to pull an in/out stunt like that.