I Have Been Married 5ys Now (together Scents 1995) We Are In The Early 30's And Have 3 Kids.(one Mine 2 Ours) There Are Many Problems In Our Relationship... mainly He Lies! Im Talking Lies To Lie. No Matter He Just Lies. Often I Think Hes Doing It To Bother Me, But At Other Times It's the First Thing That Pops Into His Head. Like... "is The Sky Blue?" Hell Say "do What Now?" Before He Answers Any Question.. And At This Point Ive Quite Repeating The Question, Pause And Hell Reply "no" Ill Then Say "yes It Is!" Hell Then Say "well Theres More White Clouds Than Any Thing." Things Like That.covering Up Trying To Make His Answer Not A Lie. Most Of The Time He Does It Knowing That I Know Hes Lying And He Still Does It. Sometimes Its Just A Total Lie, Like "no I Didnt Eat Lunch Today At All" And Im Holding A Receipt! Just Blatenly Lie. Bottom Line Is Hes A Liar.(habitual Lier?) Ive Brought This Up To Him Many Many Times To No Avail... On Several Occasions Hes Come To Me And Said"i Know 95% Of Our Problem Is Me Lieing To You, I Do It Because Im Afraid Of Your Response...im Sorry I Wont Do It Again...blah..blah.." Yes Im Not Saying That Sometimes My Response Is In Fact Not Anger, He Does Some Stupid Stuff. But This Is Silly Hugh? Im Over It Ive Told Him Im Over It. Its Reciently Become Clear Between Us That When Our Youngest (8mo) Is Old Enough To Feed Himself And Is Potty Trained, Its Over. (now That's A Whole Nother Story,I Wasn't Able To Get Pregnant Or So The Dr Said It Took 4yrs But I Did.) Point Is Id Already Be Gone Again But I Can't Now He Won't Get Up W/the Baby He Doesn't Hear Him Cry,(ive Left Him W/the Baby Went To The Store Came Back And The Baby Had Been Crying For Sometime And He Was Sound To Sleep On The Bed) And Will Not Change A Diaper,hed Take Him To A Neighbor! No Way! Not To Mention When Hes Been Left W/the 4yr Old Hes Inside A Sleep On The Couch And The 4yr Old Is Out Side Playing.. no Fence On A Busy Road!now All This Has Happened More That Once. So I Can't Leave Now Period. I Do Have A 14yr Old But Its Not Her Job To Watch Them.. ive Separated Before, Before The Last Baby. We Were Separated About 6mo,and My 14yr Old Hated Takeing Care Of The 3yr Old At The Time And The Neighbours Would Call Me Too! "hes Dirty,hes In The Street,hes Over Here Asking For Food Again" Help... help... help Ps Don't Sugest Counceling. He Diesnt Have A Problem.