I am 20 and my boyfriend is 25 we have been toghther for 2 years and we don't have sex like we use to I'm ucky if once a week and he says that we don't alwyes have to make love :mad:

Ill admit sex is enjoying but not having it all the time might help balance and strengthen the relationship on other things

I think this thread should be moved to adult sexuality, just by the way.

It all depends on how you view sex.

If sex is, as it should be in a long term relationship, about sharing each other on a deeper level, and he does not want to engage in this act then you have a deeper problem.

If sex is about getting your rocks off then... well you win some you lose some.

Both types of sex should be present in a healthy and loving relationship.

Look into the deeper aspect.