Me ex b/f left me pregnant when I was two months for another girl and got her pregnant and married her which they are not legally married. My son is now 19mnths and now his calling me. I'm still hurt for what he did and I do want him back but than I don't want him back. I wish everything can turn around to make him feel the hurt I felt when he left me but don't know how to do that. When we do talk its all about him and not me. What can I do to take this pain away or maybe make him feel bad.

I am sorry that you are going through that.
If you think that he will be a good person,then feel free to do what you want to do. Just remember that he had hurt you once,that he may hurt you again. He got that other girl pregnant,so it may be a back and fourth thing. Ex:The girl and him may fight,he will leave,come to you,you guys fight,and he will go back with her. Know what I mean?

Once a guy hurts you,it may happen again.

Good luck.

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No.

He's already left you and your child once, and when his new fling started having issues he immediately came crawling back. It's quite pathetic actually.

I agree with NO. Simply put, he did a very wrong thing to you. I feel that if he impregnated you and left and went and impregnated someone else, he is first irresponsible and second DOESN'T DESERVE YOU. Think of it that way, someone who loves somebody would never do that. You deserve to be loved.

I say ignore him or even give him one last piece of your mind. Someone like that doesn't belong in you or your baby's life.

However, I do not know the full situation and the decision is of course yours. Just don't forget what was done as sometimes in fleeting hopes of love its easy to ignore the bad stuff...

If you feel you should give him a chance... (I don't agree but if you do) make him WORK HARD for it. Don't give up your heart for a long time. He has a lot to make up for. Keep him distant and make sure you know where your heart is. And of course figure out what is going on with his wife cause if he's being unfaithful to her by going to you for unfaithful reasons. CASE IN POINT, stay AWAY!

No. Being a single mother is better than being thrown around emotionally. Why put yourself and your child through that? Let him have a healthy relationship with his child, and be civil to him, but move on with your life.