Originally Posted by
ka1
That's where it can get a little loosie-goosie. I'm all talking about core compatibly. Which is different from a good or bad guy. I think we can all agree a bad or girl; abuse, cheating , stealing ,etc is be definitive incompatible with one with self-esteem But beyond that,, i had a friend hat was dating a guy. He treated her well, better than any one else had. Which surprised me, why? She was a devote christian, and he was a member of the nation of Islam. They are incompatible on a basic level, so it would not work over the long term. He's a cool guy, if you get over the conspiracy theories. :p but this an example of what I mean. But if the compatibles and values are there, then something else is in play.