My boyfriend came home one day and said that he couldn't do it anymore! There was nothing wrong with our relationship no other girl I know this cause we were always together everyday. He said that he needed to get things figured out with his life before he could involve me we were together for 2 years I lost my job a week before he left me and so I had to move back to Colorado and leave everything I ever worked for in my life in Texas what do I do

Rebuild your life without him. You had to know it was over when you left. Get beyond this bum, who couldn't be there when you needed his support. This may work out better for you in the long run, as he seemed to only want you for paying rent, and sex.

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Rebuild your life without him. You had to know it was over when you left. Get beyond this bum, who couldn't be there when you needed his support. This may work out better for you in the long run, as he seemed to only want you for paying rent, and sex.

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The thing is that he paid the rent to and took care of me also we had a home and built that home from the ground up we were in love. And to say to rebuild my life it is really hard to even think about that cause everything I did was for him or with him the same thing for him to.

There's no magic answer and it will probably be the hardest thing you've ever done but you CAN do it.

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There's no magic answer and it will probably be the hardest thing you've ever done but you CAN do it.

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It has been the hardest thing I have ever done because he tell my mom and I that he still loves me he just wants to be alone right now and I saw him a week ago and he said that he loves me and he misses me very much so tell me what to think now

Think that if he really loves you why is he breaking your heart?

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Think that if he really loves you why is he breaking your heart?

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I don't know why he is doing this to me I asked and he can't say I know everything about him everything and he knows everything about me I don't know how to move on from this I can't sleep cause I see his face and dream about him I can't do anything all day cause when I see something he reminds me of him I don't know how to move on and stop loving him...

What age are you two?

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What age are you two?

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I was 19 when I meet him now I am 21 and he is 24 I know you are going to say you are young and you are going to find someone that is going to make you happy I have heard all that I just want the pain to be over with

Don't we all??

Like I said there's no magic answer you just have to be patient.

Laugh when you can, cry when you have to and keep being honest with yourself. That's all you can do.

There are a lot of good people here though, so come post, vent, it's good for the soul.

Well thank you!! Really thank you!! You know how people say follow with your heart and that will take you where you want to go and you will be happy when you do it or at least that is what I have heard well my heart is telling me that if I move back that I might have a chance of getting him back but I can't move back there cause it will take me forever to get a job down there again and I don't have a place to live if I go. I know he loves me still and I know that he is a great guy he really is. Its just that maybe he wanted better for me.

Just because you break up with someone it doesn't mean you have to hate them. Just try to keep in perspective why you broke up.