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  • Feb 15, 2009, 09:36 AM
    Brit01
    Guys, can you become aroused just by looking at a fully-dressed, attractive woman?
    My question precisely :confused: My friend thinks this happened to her the other day. A guy she thinks fancies her was looking at her, starting at her face for about 15-20 minutes, and she could tell he was all aroused
  • Feb 15, 2009, 12:16 PM
    N0help4u

    Yes and in fact they say that it is more likely than with guys who stare at pornography all the time and become desensitized. When a guy finds a girl attractive it doesn't matter what she is wearing and may find her even more attractive than a room full of skimpily clad girls.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 12:47 PM
    DSM521
    Most defiantly. If a man finds a woman attractive he can get aroused even if he is not in the same state as her. Just the thought if a woman a man is attracted to can bring up feelings and thoughts that will make a man very aroused and turned on.

    So lets say this man that your friend says is attracted to her has been been looking at her all day and thoughts are going through his mind. Thoughts such as taking her close off and making passionate love to her, giving her a long slow massage and so on. You can see were he could get aroused.

    My question would be can't the same be said for women as well.
  • Feb 15, 2009, 01:03 PM
    Brit01
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by DSM521 View Post
    My question would be can't the same be said for women as well.

    Personally, I wouldn't stare at a really attractive guy and start fantasizing about him on the spot... but this is just me, I guess.

    You guys seem to be very imaginative :D
  • Feb 15, 2009, 01:11 PM
    N0help4u

    ... OR we know some 'very imaginative' people :D
  • Feb 15, 2009, 01:33 PM
    Brit01
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    ...OR we know some 'very imaginative' people :D

    We should probably get credit for feeding guys' imagination ;)
  • Feb 15, 2009, 03:00 PM
    Xrayman

    Definitely. Although staring for 15-20 minutes ! Makes him sound creepy and a little weird
  • Feb 15, 2009, 05:25 PM
    Brit01
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Xrayman View Post
    definitely. although staring for 15-20 minutes ! makes him sound creepy and a little weird

    I know! But they were sitting across the table from each other, facing each other
  • Feb 15, 2009, 06:25 PM
    mugger

    15 to 20 minutes sounds either extremely shy or even a little stalkerish.
  • Feb 16, 2009, 06:18 AM
    smoothy
    Staring for more than a little bit at someone is just damn creepy...


    But yes a well dressed ( as in very well groomed) attractive woman can be arousing and no... porn does not desesitize you any more than soap operas desensitize women to romance.
  • Feb 16, 2009, 11:53 AM
    Choux

    Haven't you had a guy smile at you from a short distance away, and you notice he has a big ole erection?? :) Very sexy, very suggestive. :)
  • Feb 16, 2009, 01:38 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Choux View Post
    Haven't you had a guy smile at you from a short distance away, and you notice he has a big ole erection???? :) Very sexy, very suggestive. :)

    I'd worry if that happened to me... :eek:


    Just kidding... too good to pass that one up. :D
  • Feb 16, 2009, 01:39 PM
    chrissymarie

    Yes they can! I was just at the grocery store and some guy looked me up and down like I was naked and kept staring! I could so tell he was aroused... what a perv.
  • Feb 16, 2009, 02:58 PM
    Xrayman

    I'm sorry but this is becoming too ridiculous-pun intended.
  • Feb 16, 2009, 05:27 PM
    Choux

    X, What, you don't have any savoir faire?? :D

    smokey, :D
  • Feb 16, 2009, 05:33 PM
    kp2171
    I don't even get the question...

    She thinks he fancies her.

    Why would it be any different after two or twenty minutes??

    If he likes her, and is attracted, he likes her and is attracted... be it two minutes or twenty.

    Why is this a problem? Because he might have had an erection? Hell... you'd think a guy who sustained an erection for 20 min would get some props...

    The subject line asks if a man can be attracted to a fully clothed, attractive woman...

    Well, hell yes!

    All of my big loves were attractive to me and clothed when I met them...
  • Feb 16, 2009, 06:14 PM
    Brit01
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kp2171 View Post
    i dont even get the question...

    she thinks he fancies her.

    why would it be any different after two or twenty minutes???

    if he likes her, and is attracted, he likes her and is attracted... be it two minutes or twenty.

    why is this a problem? because he might have had an erection? hell... youd think a guy who sustained an erection for 20 min would get some props...

    the subject line asks if a man can be attracted to a fully clothed, attractive woman...

    well, hell yes!

    all of my big loves were attractive to me and clothed when i met them....

    Hey, thanks! Very funny this one :d
  • Feb 17, 2009, 04:57 PM
    liz28

    Yes, I goes through this all the time with my fiancé.
  • Feb 17, 2009, 09:06 PM
    BlueEyedSeeker

    That guy sounds creepy!

    I have been aroused by a fully-dressed woman, sure. But to stare for 20 minutes? I can't imagine.
  • Mar 10, 2009, 02:52 PM
    shyfoxie

    Judging from my boyfriend, yes. I was cleaning up after breakfast, wearing cute-yet-not-sexy red penguin jammies, and he came in after taking out the trash and he looked over me and was like "god I want you so much right now baby".
    An attractive woman is an attractive woman, regardless of what she is or isn't wearing. Do you find fully-clothed hot guys arousing?

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