I don't want to doany thinng I justwant to free but I also think about I should do something but when I go to do then I feel lazy what is he matter I don't know and I am also serious about the marriege

I am not sure what you are saying the problem is.
You want your freedom and marriage?
Maybe you need to define what you want freedom to do and if it is within reason discuss it with your spouse.
If you want commitment of marriage and freedom to see others then that is a contradiction of commitment and you would not be serious about marriage. You need to determine where you are in your marriage and where you want to be and work from there.

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Originally Posted by N0help4u

I am not sure what you are saying the problem is.
You want your freedom and marriage?
Maybe you need to define what you want freedom to do and if it is within reason discuss it with your spouse.
If you want commitment of marriage and freedom to see others then that is a contradiction of commitment and you would not be serious about marriage. You need to determine where you are in your marriage and where you want to be and work from there.

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I agree... can you give a little more information. I really have no clue what you are trying to say. Its like your talking in code.