My GF wants a 'break' with me.
Ok, my girlfriends name is Cachet we've been together for over a YEAR our anniversary was last week... it's a long distance relationship (im from UK and she's from CA), we met on Deviantart and we're both artist, this is my first relationship... I'm 19 and she's 17(turning 18 this year)... we ALWAYS talk on msn and skype everyday after school.
Few days ago, we had a big argument, we mostly argue over small useless things... I didn't think this argument was 'serious'... before, when we argue we resolve it in the end. But this time, she just wants to be alone for a month or less (thats what she said)... the problem was about my immaturity and how I get controlled by my emotion, and I'm too over-protective on her. Well I must admit it was ALL wrong, and I was deeply sorry for it and regretted everything I've done, I promise I WILL change and start over again... no matter how much I try she seems to be ignoring my message, I know apologizing isn't much of a help... I'm just scared I might lose her...
then she sent me a note, saying she's 'tired of me, she's not attracted with me anymore, and her love has died down etc. because of my immaturity and over-protectiveness'... this mssage HURTS me SO MUCH!. I was speechless... she said she meant what she said... but before this happened, couple days before, she got my valentines card and she said that she liked it and she loves me SO much and stuff... and that was 2 days before...
(if she's MATURE enough, she wouldn't say this words to me T^T"... we would prolly talk this over and FORGIVE what i did)
we've been together for over a year.. we've been in so much trouble before, like our parents not trusting us together... and we managed to survive that... we even have promises/goals in life/memories... we always say something like, 'i will never break up with you/abandon you/lose you/ etc... she even cried infront of me on skype saying it. i obviously believe she meant what she said... i was touched coz i feel the same way... she even said 'she can't believe im her BF' etc. etc.
everything she said on our fight was exact opposite, i feel like she HATES me, she doesn't act like this before i KNOW her... coz i talk to her EVERYDAY and we've been together for over a year T^T... she's a NICE person, i'm thankful that i met her in my life, i couldn't even ask for more...
i don't know what to do other than just WAIT and give her space... coz i really don't wanna lose her T^T"... I don't think she likes someone else, she'd never DO that... she's a strong christian, I am too... I just have to trust her/believe in her...
I'm going to meet her in person this july/august 2009... I'm so excited and she is too T^T I hope she'll come back to me ><
I just need advice and help... to those people who have experienced like this before...
please be mature when you reply... it is IMPORTANT to me ><"
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