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  • Feb 12, 2009, 06:13 AM
    chowder3
    Distancing Wife
    Question
    Been married for over 2 years now, relationship is good from what I can see
    We still have "relations" on a regular basis still share a great amount of laughs on the daily and are very open with each other

    I do have some past insecurities from prior relationships in college and high school that jacked me up pretty bad, but, I've been feeling like shes' been kind of distant lately and she hasn't really said she loves me in a few weeks
    Is that cause for concern or are my past insecurities just getting the best of me
  • Feb 12, 2009, 06:16 AM
    tickle

    Just stay tuned to her because when you are insecure yourself, any little change in her will effect you. It may not be you at all, but as we always say here, communication is the best way to solve small problems.

    Ms tickle
  • Feb 12, 2009, 06:24 AM
    artlady

    You need to communicate your feelings to her,including your insecurities.The only way people get through marriage or any type of healthy relationship is to be honest and open.

    You may have been stressing for nothing,shes your wife you should feel very comfortable asking her if she has an issue with you.

    You state that you are very open with each other but you are here trying to guess how she feels.That is not open.That is a lack of openness.

    Have an honest ,open discussion and tell her how you feel.Anything else is pure speculation.
  • Feb 12, 2009, 06:35 AM
    chowder3

    I agree with both of you and thank you
    For the quick feed back

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