I met a guy from out of town, and we kept talking. We both kind of grew on each other after he left town, and now I'm developing feelings for him (ugh). I'm by no means in love, but I think about him a lot and often ponder the future. He's visiting family out of the country right now, and still managed to call me. He then initiated phone sex, which we've done numerous times in the past. I was just wondering if I should feel flattered when he initiates these phone sex sessions or if there's no real meaning behind it. I was especially flattered that we had phone sex over international phone lines, while he's in a tropical climate. I've initiated it once or twice myself, but I like to do it since I don't want to have sex with anyone else and it helps me feel close to him while calming my sexual urges. Are guys the same way? I would like to say that he does it for the same reasons, but don't want to be naïve. Is he just a horny guy or are there feelings involved? Opinions Please!

I'm not a fan of "phone sex" as i see it as false hope that someone really cares about you. There are no feelings involved as you are together, i wouldn't put too much stock in it. If you havent had sex, anything will do, including phone sex.
Just my opinion, mind you.

Most likely just mutal, and/or one sided pleasure. Perhaps to him better than watching a porn. Unless there is some mutal agreement to the status of your relationship you can't really make much out of it, many guys do this with women they don't know or hardly know. International call still cheaper than a 900 number.

Me neither... never liked the phone sex thing at all. But don't doubt there are people that that's their thing.

Better to devote your energies into a real relationship... what you have now is a fantasy relationship in which you're being used, in my opinion. :)

If your getting pleasure out of phone sex with him and he is too that is normal because that's what phones sex is supposed to do! Give you pleasure. So just enjoy it and don't look to deep in it. There's no harm in this if you are both happy.

When he gets back you can test whether he really likes you or not by his actions when you 2 are together in person. If he only talks about and hints towards sex then you know he's just a horny guy but if he shows he's generally interested then that should tell you otherwise.

But right now you are both just horny "guys" LOL Enjoy it!