Ask Me Help Desk - I'm confused and want her back

okay so I met this girl a week ago, (her mate hooked us up)
we seemed to be getting along, we spent the Friday watching a film, and having fun.
however after the day we didn't speak much, until the following Friday where she phoned me and we had these deep phonecalls, for example she'd be calling me on the phone for 3 hours at 2:00 a.m, and id do the same, and the things we talked about together would be the biggest secrets.. within our family for example that I wouldn't tell anyone else...
however she told me when we frist met that she used to be bi sexual, I was fine with this because I thought that being bi she liked both men and women, but today when I went out with her, I don't know if she said it for a certain reason or sincerely meant it, she said that her past girlfriend had came to her college and they were apparently back together again even though they had, had an argument and she told her she was straight,

what I don't understand is that, she had the whole day to tell me when I asked her out to the cinema but she chosed to say it whilst we were queing up to get the tickets..

I'm sorry if I'm abit jumbly in the sentences but its all sooo confusing.. atm I'm just thinking my luck.. I get a girl that I have sooo much in common with its unreal and however... the lord(I believe in a higher power) would take away one of my best chances to be happy.. atm I'm 16 as well and so is she..
can someone gimme some advice.. about something.. whether to do with her.. or how to get other something that I've had so much in common with.. and spent ages talking to in the middle of the night..

lol I feel so strong for her that I constantly check for emails/txt/missed calls from her.. its all turned to crap =/

thanks much appreciated.. =/

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Originally Posted by murker1

okay so i met this girl a week ago

You only know this girl a week and she's one of 'your best chances to be happy? Come on you barely know her?

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we didnt speak much, until the following friday where she phoned me and we had these deep phonecalls, for example she'd be calling me on the phone for 3 hours at 2:00 a.m

This is not healthy behaviour ever. This seems so exciting now, but just because you have a few conversations doesn't mean you know each other at all

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she used to be bi sexual, i was fine with this because i thought that being bi she liked both men and women

NO ONE EVER USED TO BE BISEXUAL!

Either you are bisexual or you are not!

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what i dont understand is that, she had the whole day to tell me when i asked her out to the cinema but she chosed to say it whilst we was queing up to get the tickets..

Because she's confused about her feelings and too young to properly deal with the situation.

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i get a girl that i have sooo much in common with its unreal and however...

You don't really know her yet.
At your age and considering the amount of time you both know each other, you can't expect to know her. She's obviously in a fragile state and doesn't know how she feels about her sexuality. I think 16 is very young to be making decisions about your sexuality but all in the same, you need to leave her to figure this out by herself. Be a friend, that's what she needs right now, and if you really did feel as you say you do for this girl then her happiness would be your first goal and you could help her by listening to her, caring for her and supporting her.

It's called a crush , and you'll have many more of them before you finally fall truly in Love. Just be thankful it finished so early and you don't have to bare a lot of pain.

Sounds like it would have been nothing but a drama anyway.

Thanks for the advice, I will definitely keep her as a friend and stick by her, just see how it goes from there, any added help would be great, thanks

A week is a little to soon to know someone, or even know how you feel about them, so how you have so much in common may be premature. Keep it friends only and have fun getting to know each other.

I think you youngsters got carried away by the intense feelings, and now its time to slow down, and deal with the reality of being strangers.