How can I assist him in lasting longer?
My husband and I have been married for over 10 years. Our sex life is a major source of frustration for me and it has been since the very beginning. I'm not stupid, I knew he wouldn't change overnight but after 10+ years I'm starting to wonder. It's not all bad, he's always been good with his hands ;) and just in the past couple of months he's gotten very good orally :) so I know he's capable of learning (even if it is slowly :p ) He's lucky or I'm lucky if he lasts 2 minutes :( and that's just not enough time for me, even if I'm primed and ready to go. We've talked about it and have even got some books about things that could help but to no avail. He works a lot and we have 3 kids so he doesn't really have time to practice some of these "techniques" that the books suggest. So I was wondering if there was anything I could do on my part to help him with it or is it just something that he's got to overcome on his own? Is that selfish for me to want amazing sex the regular way? Or should I just be happy I get what I get? (I hope not! )