I want to have another baby but not if I'm going to end up with another boy. Is there anything to I can do to affect whether I have a girl or a boy?

It's the luck of the draw. There is nothing you can do to pick the sex of your child.

You get what you get, and hope for a happy and healthy baby. I have two boys and they are the loves of my life.

One more thing for sajjw.. if you want a girl I heard you supposed to do the do 2 days before you ovulate but then again its not for sure so I just go with what I get lolllll

You could try the Chinese lunar calendar, but I would try to resolve your issues with having another boy before you try to conceive. There is nothing wrong with wanting a girl. If you know you can't handle another boy you might want to reconsider having another child. You have 50% chance of having a boy every time. As you must know an innocent male or female the child deserves his or her parents unconditional love and acceptance.

The only way you can guarantee the sex of your child is to adopt.

I can certainly understand having a preference and desiring a certain sex. (Girls scare me so I would be happy with all boys.) But if having another boy is an issue, I would suggest not trying again.

(girls scare me so I would be happy with all boys.)
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I don't think you can control that. It's up to the guys sperm that reaches the egg first x girl y boy

I can't BELIEVE that every single poster on this thread is treating this as a fickle thing. Sajjw, if you are not willing to take your chances, and love and feel blessed by whatever you have, I think it's time to shut down the baby factory.

By the comments you have made on others threads, you are a hyprocrite also.

Just woaww!! Looooooooooooool

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Exactly what was so funny about this? :rolleyes:

There are so many woman that only WISH they could have a baby, no matter whether it's a boy or a girl. I can't imagine, losing three babies myself, having the mind set that if you cannot give birth to a girl, the deal is off. WOW!. is all I can say.

There is no guarantee, so I suggest not having more children, and focus your attention on the BOY you DO have. He deserves at least that much! I sure hope your boy (or boys) never get to find out that they don't have another sibling, because if it turned out to be one of "their" gender, you weren't interested. Nice!

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Originally Posted by starbuck8

I can't BELIEVE that every single poster on this thread is treating this as a fickle thing. Sajjw, if you are not willing to take your chances, and love and feel blessed by whatever you have, I think it's time to shut down the baby factory.

By the comments you have made on others threads, you are a hyprocrite also.

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This is a hateful, malicious comment and I have reported it as an innapropriate post as it breaks posting rules 4 and 5. If you look again at the other thread that you mention, you will see that I agree with a chap who says that people preach about adopting dogs then produce babies instead of adopting one. As I am not one of the people preaching about adopting dogs (although I do actually think that it is a wonderful thing to adopt a dog), it is not hypocritical of me to want to have a child. Besides which, it seems that it was generally agreed that one has nothing whatsoever to do with the other anyway. To go into a completely different category to malign me simply because you disagree with what you think I am saying is not on, really is it Starbuck? This is supposed to be a question and answer forum, not a 'persecute anyone you disagree with' forum. I am almost afraid to ask any questions again!

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