He treats me like a child.
My husband of 4 years treats me like a child. He acts like I'm totally incapable of doing household chores and taking care of my kids. He is a main manager for a huge retail chain and bosses people around all day and when he gets home he treats me like an employee. He will ask/tell me to do something a million times if I don't get up and do it the first time he mentions it. I have been trying and trying to tell him for years how it makes me feel when he does it and he listens for a month or two but then goes right back to himself. I'm sick of being treated like a child, if I wanted to be treated like that I could have stayed with my parents! How do I get him to treat me like an adult? I do all the household chores, I live in a very clean home so it's not that I neglect my duties. Has anyone else had to deal with this? How do I get him to realize once and for all that I am an adult and I don't need orders to do my job.