Allegations of sexual abuse
I have been accused of abuse and stand to loose my children. The girl recanted her story now several times. We are getting ready to go to court. They say they "just" believe her statements she made to start with. I have a court appointed lawyer and no money to hire some high powered one. I need help, I am scared to death of the way DHHR operates. Any suggestions will be welcome>
False custodial sexual abuse allegations
I have a hearing in three weeks a conjunctury hearing. The girl is 14. Step daughter, she accused me of sexually touching her, then has recanted her story again and again to the police, school, DHHR and counselor. I think she is going to continue to recant but I don't know that for sure though. I have seven other children and my wife to think of. We had her move out of the house to her mothers so DHHR would give her the kids back. I has been the longest 5 ddays of my life. The reason she left was because if I left, there was no real assurance I wouldn't be near the kids. This way her mother is sort of supervising the kids. DHHR is saying that they believe her statement she originally made. So they substantiated abuse but the police can't really do anything because of her recanting and another sibiling witnessing the events. Now if they flip her again, is where my questions start-- one what does that change for me? With her going back and forth. Two what should I be doing to bolster my case to defend myself. We just had our first hearing a couple hours ago and they gave the children back to my wife at her mothers. I had to agree to have no contact with them until the next hearing. It is so hard. My oldest is 17 he am I are usually joined at the hip,my 14 yr old that this is about, my 13 year old who is my jock, a 4.0 student with his first girlfriend! My next is my 12yr old princess, she is spoiled. Then there is the ornery one,at 10 the smallest in stature but a big heart, then my name sake he looks like me and acts like me. Then my 3 yr old(big) little buddy who I can't help but kiss, then the new one, we haven't figured out where he fits in.Then the baby 3 months old and can't get enough to eat. God help me I can't miss there lives it is why life is worth it to me. I am so involved in every area of there lives, Football, track, weights, choir, band, cupstacking,potty training, pokemon, and all the updates about twilight! Every penny I make goes towards my family I have reserves to hire a high powered attorney. Ive never been on welfare to raise my kids, I spent it on them raising them day to day, I need help. I have to get out from under this cloud and be able to defend any criminal charges. There is so much more to these children's lives that is going to be destroyed. My oldest college, my 13 yr old is captain of his football team with a 4.0 average his whole life, my 12 yr old wants to go into oceanic studies to cure "red tide" for the dolphins,my 10 yr old is already working on a very serious business plan for his future he and his 12 yr old sister are both 4.0 students also. So is my 7yr old(today is his birthday Happy birthday Jeffy) and I can't be there and could possibly not be there for many many more if I don't get some help. Sorry so long I am just so alone and scared right now. I never even knew things like this happened. I will keep checking back. Thank you anyone who takes the time to read this.
False custodial sexual abuse allegations
I have a hearing in three weeks a conjunctury hearing. The girl is 14. Step daughter, she accused me of sexually touching her, then has recanted her story again and again to the police, school, DHHR and counselor. I think she is going to continue to recant but I don't know that for sure though. I have seven other children and my wife to think of. We had her move out of the house to her mothers so DHHR would give her the kids back. I has been the longest 5 ddays of my life. The reason she left was because if I left, there was no real assurance I wouldn't be near the kids. This way her mother is sort of supervising the kids. DHHR is saying that they believe her statement she originally made. So they substantiated abuse but the police can't really do anything because of her recanting and another sibiling witnessing the events. Now if they flip her again, is where my questions start-- one what does that change for me? With her going back and forth. Two what should I be doing to bolster my case to defend myself. We just had our first hearing a couple hours ago and they gave the children back to my wife at her mothers. I had to agree to have no contact with them until the next hearing. It is so hard. My oldest is 17 he and I are usually joined at the hip,my 14 yr old that this is about, my 13 year old who is my jock, a 4.0 student with his first girlfriend! My next is my 12yr old princess, she is spoiled. Then there is the ornery one,at 10 the smallest in stature but a big heart, then my 7yr old, name sake he looks like me and acts like me. Then my 3 yr old(big) little buddy who I can't help but kiss, then the new one, 3 months old, and can't get enough to eat. God ,help me I can't miss there lives ,it is why life is worth it to me. I am so involved in every area of there lives, Football, track, weights, choir, band, cupstacking,potty training, pokemon, and all the updates about twilight! Every penny I make goes towards my family I have no reserves to hire a high powered attorney. Ive never been on welfare to raise my kids, I spent it on them raising them day to day, I need help. I have to get out from under this cloud and be able to defend any criminal charges. There is so much more to these children's lives that is going to be destroyed. My oldest college, my 13 yr old is captain of his football team and track team, with a 4.0 average his whole life, I condition and train him, my 12 yr old wants to go into oceanic studies to cure "red tide" for the dolphins,my 10 yr old is already working on a very serious business plan for his future he and his 12 yr old sister are both 4.0 students also. So is my 7yr old(today is his birthday Happy birthday Jeffy) and I can't be there and could possibly not be there for many many more if I don't get some help. Sorry so long I am just so alone and scared right now. I never even knew things like this happened. I will keep checking back. Thank you anyone who takes the time to read this.