I'm in a committed, secure, long marriage but I feel very important stuff is missing. The warmth, closeness, sex is completely absent. In fact still a virgin.

Also, am attracted to and deeply in love with someone though it's a complete no-no.

You're married but have never consummated the marriage? How has that happened?

More info please.

Background..

If you feel something is missing from your marriage than talk to your husband regarding these feelings so the two of you can work on it together because remember communication is the key.

Also, I unsure what you mean by your title but it is normal to be attracted to someone outside of your relationship just don't act on these feelings. It's okay to look but nothing more.

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Originally Posted by liz28

If you feel something is missing from your marriage than talk to your husband regarding these feelings so the two of you can work on it together because remember communication is the key.

Also, I unsure what you mean by your title but it is normal to be attracted to someone outside of your relationship just don't act on these feelings. It's okay to look but nothing more.

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Thanks, this sounds sensible and clears up a lot of fog