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  • Feb 8, 2009, 06:01 PM
    RANIA999
    Taking care of your woman , prostitution?
    Do you think men should cater for women financially in relationships because they want sex more than women, or is it kind of prostitution?
    It is the oldest profession in the world, men aroused by women's beauty , women get aroused by power.
    I have seen relationships end because of money, and wives give husbands more sex if he is generous, women from what I have seen get aroused more in a relationship by a generous partner
    What do you think about that?
    My q. is if you lost your job and your partner is not helping you the way you needed to be helped, is it okay to break up with him? Or just try to go back up again financially, but at this point don't you feel resentful of him and you just hate having sex with him and eventually the relationships ends, I have seen lot of guys here don't know why women sometimes just break up with them out of the blue, could this be one of the reasons especially if he can help her.
    I find women way generous with men, they are so happy in this case (sex and money). When a woman is well off she never complains to take care of her man and even is very careful not to hurt his ego, this is not the case with men, they always kind of remind the wife that he is king of the house financially and she is nothing without his money ( I not saying all of them like that, of course).
    In the media you see lots of rich men fight to the bone in divorces that the ex wife gets nothing , but in the case of women she just pays him and get it over with, (madonna, jennifer lopez) and so many.
    If man is rich , the young wife is always a gold digger, but when a woman is rich it is a different story
    Why when men are after women for sex they are just jerks, and when a woman is looking for a husband to love and who can be able to support her in the years of having babies, she is a gold digger,
    Men with money look for beautiful ones and beautiful women look for men to support their offspring, I think people if they would call these women gold diggers, then those men are P(female private parts) diggers, sorry I am being very blunt, but I really want to hear what guys say about that
  • Feb 8, 2009, 06:14 PM
    odilians10

    I'm female and this thread is well said, I once dated a powerful man in society and I was seen as a gold digger even though I was far from it...
  • Feb 8, 2009, 06:43 PM
    SarahParker
    If you think that men like sex more than women, you have obviously not been hanging around the right women. :)

    Honestly, though, this is the 21st century and feminism has been around for more than a century. Shouldn't we be over issues like gold-digging? Both partners have the responsibility to contribute to the relationship. Sometimes this includes money. Sometimes men are richer than women; sometimes women are richer than men. Sometimes shallow people of both genders pick their partners for superficial qualities like wealth and external beauty. It is not that big of a deal.
  • Feb 8, 2009, 06:57 PM
    RANIA999
    There is no doubt that men have more sex drive than women, women have hard time getting off, compare to men in general, it is biological , has nothing to do with feminism.
    Women take longer, they make love with their minds not body unlike men, if they are healthy.
  • Feb 8, 2009, 09:09 PM
    DJ28
    Yeah I was going to say my ex was a freak in bed, she wanted it just as much as I did.
  • Feb 9, 2009, 06:52 AM
    talaniman

    I think we all should be able to define our relationships with our partners. May not look good in public, but what works for you is okay.

    If both are fine with it, that's all that matters, the rest is just talk/gossip!

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