:confused:I just found out two weeks ago that my husband had a one night stand like a yr ago. The only reason I found out was cause the other woman states that he is the father of the child she had. There is a DNA pending (results). I am so confused. We have been married for 6yrs and have three beautiful children. I love him very much but what should I do if this child is his? Help... I'm so confused!! :confused::confused::confused::confused:

Hi,

I'm really sorry about your situation... First of all, find out if your husband has been regularly cheating on you with other women, or if this was a one time mistake.
If it's a one-time mistake, forgive him, and think about why a tiny kid should suffer for his parents' mistake. Ensure that your husband does not stray from you in doing this, but let him interact with his father...
I hope it doesn't turn too difficult for you in all this though... Good luck!

Hi thanks for the quick answer... well I know he got the results in already, but he is hiding it from me. I not understand why but I know him so well that he is afraid to even open the letter... it's not open yet. But I am so scared that it is because I really done know who I am going to deal with this. He said that he does not want anything with the child but I don't think this is fair cause I have kids. I can not stop thinking about this. I love him so much that I don't want to lose him but I don't know what to do ?