Hi I'm 31 I been with my husband since I was 19.he drives e crazy we don't fight he tries to control me tell me when to go to bed etc .I work he don't he always puts me down .never sticks up for me takes my checks I barely get any of the money I make I'm not good saying how I feel but I'm really unhappy what do I do

Why are you putting up with this? He's controlling everything, he doesn't work, he takes the money you make and orders you around. Are you his wife or his dog?

Have you tried talking to him? Has it always been this way? Have you tried counselling.

This isn't a marriage, this is one person dominating another.

I agree with altenweg...

You work and he doesn't... that means you were the trousers in your house.. so don't put up this at all... be strong and firm!

It is not right AT ALL