Started by getting little short notes in my locker, then people came up to me asking what my favorite color and if I liked this certain guy. I didn't even know who he was. My friends got so involved that one said yes to the guy for me when he asked if I would go out with him! I had to tell him that it was a joke and I wasn't his girlfriend. I wasn't sure because I have never had a boyfriend before. I am a little nervous about it all. When I told him about us not being together like that, I also added that I didn't really know him that well... which was true, but very stupid. It has been 4 months and we have been ignoring each other. I have learned a lot about him and have begun to like him. I told my friend (who has the biggest mouth you could ever imagine!! ) and today at the library she told him, and three other guys right in front of me. I argued and was so embarrassed that I turned red. He was so upset I didn't want to go out with him. Now I do, but I am just not sure AT ALL. What should I do?? Be his girlfriend?? Or go slower than I already have?? I'm not sure if I like him, but he keeps asking and I feel guilty! Help!!

Who old are you?

And what your friends have done is totally stepping over your boundaries and it seems like they make a lot of drama, with out considering your feelings or his.

Maybe you could start by being friends? I don't know how old you are so I don't know what's common in your age group, but for me it seems like a better idea, to be friends first or go on a date, or hang out.. doesn't that sound like a better idea then to just become an item?

That way you could get to know him and become sure.

Please do not repost questions.

She is approximately a middle school age (12-13 at most) but she will not give her correct age.