I'm a bridesmaid in a friends' wedding and want to throw her a bachelorette party (possibly a surprise). I need some ideas: something we can do without alocohol, is pretty low cost, and something christians will want to attend. Let me know what you think... thanks in advance :)

Make it a tea party theme, with lots of different teas available (hot and cold) and it can all be pretty girly girl too which will help her get in touch with her "inner bride" LOL.

A MUST HAVE-- dainty cucumber sandwiches with the crusts trimmed off on plates lined with doilies, along with other finger food that goes with a tea party theme. As for a time filler, why not play a version "This is Your (Single) Life!!" where you recap, in humorous terms, what led the bride to this fateful day-- her wedding? Fun, feminine yet still tasteful... just a few off-the-top ideas that may get you thinking outside of the box too?

Brunch is always good. Or what about a really awsome picnic?