How can we open up to each other without feeling a sense of pressure from both sides? I want to be able to talk about what we like what we don't like what makes us feel good what we find is a turn on or turn off with out any feelings of anxiety or embarrassment I feel that my boyfriend has hard time talking about it. I'm not sure how to bring it up without making him feel uncomfortable or myself I want to make it fun and exiting but at the same time a learning technique that will benefit us both?

Make it a date night game of Truth or Dare?

Have cards already made up with different questions (what's your favorite fantasy, kiss your favorite body part, etc).

Actually, and conversational game you pick up in a sex shop should be able to giveyou some good conversation starters.

Gift some story books with nasty ones or give some porn cd so that he should know that how broadminded you are. Touch his body and rub when you both are alone if rub your bumm on on his penis standing in front of him.

It'll work

Love your answer Synnen, sounds great!

I find it kind of funny that us humans have such a hard time with communication.We have no problem in our sexual relationship doing the most intimate things to one another but oh my when it comes to talking about it we are embarrassed.

If you really think about how silly that is,I think it might be easier to open up.

Make it fun,sex doesn't have to be all serious and always about intimacy.. it should also be looked at as the great recreation that it is.There are times for romance and times for down and dirty play!

Leave him alone if he is not interested in sharing his fantasy or real life sexuality.

That is prying when someone isn't into that! :)