I was dating this amazing guy and everything was going great. There were feelings on both sides that we've never had before. All of a sudden he tells me we have to break up because when he turns 21 (in April) him and two friends are going to Vegas to work in an underground casino. It's totally illegal and he says he's going anyway and that he'll do whatever it takes to do it cause it's been a dream of his for years. He hasen't even told his family yet and he said he'll do it in 3 months. I don't know what to do, as his girl I don't want him to go and as his friend I'm scared he's going to get wrapped up in the wrong crowd and end up the worst (dead). He said that he loves me and doesn't want to bring me down with him and that's why we have to break up. Also he said if he was to come back I would be the first girl he'd come running back to. I feel like getting him caught for his job now (which is also another underground casino). Then he wouldn't beable to cross the border no matter what, but I'm scared it'll come back to haunt me and we won't be together. What do I do... Let him go and wait at least a year to see if he comes back to me or take action into my own hands and possibly save his life and career?