My girlfriend who I have been dating for about 9 months is amazing, she lost her virginity to me, she loves me and I know it, I want to spend the rest of my life with her as she does with me. She just started college and she told me she had a little crush on a guy she sits next to in her music class. I said that's fine just don't talk to him. She was angered with that idea and says I don't trust her. So she talks to this guy and he lets it be known that he likes her. He puts his number in her phone, and text her all class. I see her at lunch and I just so happen to pick up her phone and I see who she has been talking to, I throw a fit in the middle of the restaurant. She later explains that everything she has done is perfectly OK. I don't know what I should do

You leave her alone, that's what you do.

victorlea - read my post NOW

You will know what to do - don't make my same mistake. PLEASE

Since this guy has taken her phone and put his number in it, then simply take her phone and delete your number from her phone. And then go NC and enjoy the college life

I don't get why everyone is so AFRAID to be single. To be honest, I forgot how much fun it was! If you are in college, especially! Life is too short for drama like this.

Ok turn around.. put your left foot about a foot in front of you, now do the same with the right... keep doing this and WALK AWAY.

Well, I'll put it to you this way... If she is already looking around, getting numbers, giving her number, and talking to guys she has crushes on, she is going to keep looking around until she finds someone that she thinks is better than you and dump you.

That's how it works, especially when you help her make her decision by being insecure, jealous, and needy.

Seems to me she is not ready to be tied down to one person and is about to go in to the fabled party phase (18-25) that most women go through. You're just seen as a hindrance to her fun right now, especially if you

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Not good!

You have to back off, get a grip, and cool down, or you will loose her. Your choice!

If you are uncomfortable with her making or having guy friends and neither of you can come to a compromise to figure this problem out, then it's time to go.

Doesn't sound very classy of her to tell you she has a crush on someone else, what's that about! Your supposed to be the only guy she is interested in period. Although its easier said than done, break it off now before she does it in a much more painful way.

That not cool there are boundaries when your going into a relationship . She know he just doing cause he like her and she like the attention. Even though he know she not single doesn't necessarily mean he won't try to make a move.

I know you thought this girl was the one but a loyal person does NOT go looking for "boyfriends" so she can text with. I would move on. You want a girl who is 100% with you not 60%