Stuck in the friend zone?
Ok, so here's the story. I've known this girl for about 2 and half years. Were both in the Air Force, those of you that are in the service or are prior service know that a lot of the young airman coming in wind up getting married or have kids during their first term, or even during tech school. So her and I were stationed at our first base together. I've always had feelings for her, and over the time that I've known her we've become closer. So when we got to our first base she ended dating this jackass, she wound up getting pregnant and decided to get married. I knew it wouldn't work out, and I told her that. They are currently finalizing their divorce after only a year of being married. So now that she has a kid, and is in the process of a divorce I still find myself really attracted to her in ALL aspects. We get along GREAT. I talk to her about everyday at work, and time just flys by when we talk, it's sooo easy. So now my question is should I make a move? And if so, when? And how? We've always been a little flirty with each other, but I think I'm afraid I'm stuck in the friend zone now that I've know her for this long. I know risk and rewards go hand in hand and I'm willing to risk the friendship I have with her to be with her, but I want to do it right if I'm going to take the risk. Any advice/feedback would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.