Me and my girlfriend were dating for 2 and a half years then she joined a band and now she is in love with the guitarist and there dating I really love her and care about her she won't talk to me or anything and it really hurts I'm 19 but I don't know what to do I am miserable and just want to talk to her can someone help me please

Have you guys officially broken up, or did she just stop talking to you?

Break ups hurt, especially when one of the people has moved on.

I know you're in pain right now, but you have to move on, she has.

Read the sticky's in the relationship forum, there's lots of good advice there on how to get over an ex. You will be okay, it just takes time.

My best answer for you is to also find someone else because you are only 19, and there will be more people in your life then just her. Trust me i went through the same thing.

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My best answer for you is to also find someone else because you are only 19, and there will be more people in your life then just her. Trust me i went through the same thing.

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Kayla, welcome to AMHD. Please, don't highlight your post in fluorescent green, it makes it really hard to read. My eyes hurt! ;)

Thanks.

OK sorry about that

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ok sorry bout that

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No problem. :)

You need to get your mind off her. Get involved in activities... go out with friends, play sports, focus on your job. Surround yourself with positive things and trust me you will find someone new.

Well, I think you should go ahead in your life instead of thinking about her all the time. I like Dr. Revis answer. Get involved in activities.

I am 32. Same thing happen with me when I was 19. Same time my dad's business meltdown, We were nowhere. We have start all our life from begening. Even I had to stop my studies.

So what I did? I started working. There was only aim in my mind that no matter what happens, I have to bring back those good days for my parents. I made new friends and then I started my further studies. It took me almost 5 years to get back to normal from all this stuffs but I never cut loose. Kept my cool. Now my life is settled and I am more relaxed man. I have a wonderful wife with me.

Keep one thing in mind that Everything is in our hands. You can and you will find more suitable partner then her in your life.

And still you think, you really love her and want her back then live it to time. But for your sake, keep your mind busy with some good friends or start working or in your studies. If she is blessed in your life, she will come back, and if she is not then why wasting your valuable time in nothing... CARRY ON That's LIFE...

BEST OF LUCK...

I agree with almost everyone here. Move on and end all communication with her. Also find some activities to keep you busy... really really busy. It'll be a whike until you can get over her.