Okay so my boyfriend of 9 months cheated on me with his ex wife while I WAS WATCHING Their SON it was his weekend! Said he had to go to work he said he had to run 2 routes I knew something was up so he left at 10:30 that night I had a feeling so I had my mom follow him... he went to days inn in our hometown and me that slut! He left earlier in the day to get us chocolate and champaign for the night we took the kids back well when I found out where he was I went to days inn by that time his mom called him because I had to have her come get the kid and called him and told him how she was so upset with him well on my way leaving his house he called and cussed me out and said he was working and all this so I went to days in knocked on the door and said I have been dating your ex husband for the last 9 months there was choc. And champaign on the table, his jacket, and after all that I still love him and would be with him tomorrow I have never been that girl I have always been strong and didn't take getting treated like crap but he says he needs time to think about things and how he can't look at me because he feels so bad and doesn't know how he could do that to me I want him back so bad and he calls every day but how do I know he won't do it again. I know once a cheater always a cheater but its not always true I have been there and I would never cheat on anyone again! Please help I can't sleep eat quit crying since Saturday night!! 1

Let me get this straight... You were watching HIS child for HIM, while HE was sleeping with HIS ex-wife? Am I right about this?

Tell me, what do you have to gain by keeping him in your life? You are so much stronger than you give yourself credit for. Don't ever beg for a guy, believe me, we are very rarely worth it, especially a guy that does this.

I was wrapping my head around this. While I can't relate to it, I can tell you that is the biggest smack in the face my fiancé could do to me. While I am at home, watching the girls(that I view as my own) so she could go out for a night and she ends up boinking her ex husband? That's worst than a smack in the face, that's like being spit and smacked in the face and then kicked between the legs for good measure.

I would be furious! To say the least, I don't know how you could forgive someone like that. What is so good about him? It can't be his character

Champagne and chocolate? Your champagne and chocolate!!

My Dear,please think more of yourself than this creep thinks of you and know that somewhere out there is a love that will treat you with the dignity and respect you deserve. This guy has no morality and that is something you can never teach.

He can't look at you because he is not into you and he is not man enough to be honest.

The writing is on the wall but you are so blind with love you are failing to see it.He is a jerk and while once a cheater always a cheater may not always be the case,I can assure once a jerk ,always a jerk!

You need to dig down inside and find that strong girl you used to be and become her again.No one deserves this kind of treatment and if you take him back its only a matter of time before he hurts you again.

Get out before you invest any more time in this one sided relationship.

You can do it and love yourself enough not to take any more!

This is a new one, baby sitter with benefits or what?

I would take the hint and let them get their own baby-sitter.

You get a new boyfriend!!

Yeah, that is the lowest blow I've heard of in a while. And that's saying a lot.

You should not, any under circumstances beg him to come back to you!

aren't you worth more than this? don't you deserve more? YES!!! YOU DO!

You shouldn't be begging him to stay in your life, you should tell him to get the heck out of your life! Cheating is bad in itself, but I must say that this guy has really taken this too a WHOLE other lvl!

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Originally Posted by talaniman

let them get their own baby-sitter.

You get a new boyfriend!!!

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Had to spread the Rep Tal but loved this :)

Ashley, I've been coming to this site for 3 years now, and I have to tell you that your boyfriend might be the biggest douche bag I've ever heard about. Talk about a low rent, bottom feeding, loser.

Forget about you for a second. This man cares so little about his own child that he leaves that child in the hands of someone while he cheats on her with the child's mother. What if you were one of those women that abuse kids, or if you just snapped. I'm not implying you are, but as a guy with no kids, if I had one I'm pretty sure I'd be making sure to protect them. Your douche bag just lets you watch them while cheating on you at the same time. If this is what he thinks of his own flesh and blood then you haven't got a chance.

chuff: had to spread the rep.. But yeah he really is a bottom feeding looser, and this is *lost for words*

I'm seriously lost for words, this is just so... unbelievable.

Oh my good god! :eek:

WHAT are you doing??

Do you have no self respect?


Stop making excuses for him, run!!


This is terrible, and I've heard some bad ones but...

I just read your story and I felt your pain, run and never look back. This guy is definitely give a whole new meaning to the word low. You deserve better, and you know it...