There is this guy with whom I believe I am in love. We've spent quite some time together but I'm not sure if he is interested as much as I am into him. About two months ago, I asked him how he felt, he said that he is not really looking at the moment. This valentine's day I wish to send him a rose at work. I was wondering whether I should or am I making a fool of myself:o?

G girl:confused:

I think that would be coming on to strong. You'd be better to ask him out to something a few days after Valentine's Day if you want to make a move.

Being in love is often being foolish, so if you want to send him a dozen, go with your feelings, often you only get one good chance to let someone know how you feel.

What about a simple card? Or better yet, why not wait for him to make a move on V-Day? If he's into you the way you're into him, he'll find a way to make you feel special. If you're not sure he shares your feelings, sending him a rose will indeed make you seem foolish. Though, I wonder: has he ever offered you flowers (roses) yet?