He told my family that he wants to spend the rest of is life with me and then he broke up with me because my mom and him didn't get along so he went back to where his family lives. Can he all of a sudden stop loving and missing me?

I don't get why most guys are like that.
If he really loved you that much in the first place that he would say that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, he wouldn't of broke up with you just because he can't get along with your mother.
If he really loved you that much he would have stuck with you no matter what the circumstance.
I don't think he's really stop loving you, maybe he's just confused about his feelings right now. Have you tried to talk about this with him?

I'm guessing this is the same guy you're talking about in the other thread, and well. Love. And whether he loves you anymore, is far more complicated then this and the information in this post is very limited. Judging from your other thread, he loved you enough to relocate from one state to another... and when he said he wanted to be with you for ever...

How old are the two of you?

He might have felt he wanted to be with you the rest of his life, but time flows, and things change... not only within you but also around you and circumstances surrounding your life.

And he might still love you, but he might have felt that he needed to go back to Texas... have you asked him? If he still loves you that is...

The only person that can answer this question is him. I agree with everyone that you need to talk to him so my question is "what's stopping you"?

Also, what exactly did your mother do or say to him? I must say that sometimes it's hard to be with someone when the person your with parent or parents doesn't like you and their actions and words can hurt.

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Originally Posted by techpro

I don't get why most guys are like that.
If he really loved you that much in the first place that he would say that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, he wouldn't of broke up with you just because he can't get along with your mother.
If he really loved you that much he would of stuck with you no matter what the circumstance.
I don't think hes really stop loving you, maybe hes just confused about his feelings right now. Have you tried to talk about this with him?

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No I haven't but he did tell me he still love me and I talked to 2 days again he told me we are not going to get back together but then he calls me baby twice.

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Originally Posted by roxypox

I'm guessing this is the same guy you're talking about in the other thread, and well. Love. and whether or not he loves you anymore, is far more complicated then this and the information in this post is very limited. Judging from your other thread, he loved you enough to relocate from one state to another.... and when he said he wanted to be with you for ever...

how old are the two of you?

he might have felt he wanted to be with you the rest of his life, but time flows, and things change... not only within you but also around you and circumstances surrounding your life.

and he might still love you, but he might have felt that he needed to go back to texas.... have you asked him? if he still loves you that is...

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Well I'm 18 he is 19 ND YES HE TOLD ME HE LOVED ME I WANT TO MAKE SURE!

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Originally Posted by liz28

the only person that can answer this question is him. I agree with everyone that you need to talk to him so my question is "what's stopping you"?

Also, what exactly did your mother do or say to him? I must say that sometimes it's hard to be with someone when the person your with parent or parents doesn't like you and their actions and words can hurt.

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She slapped him when they were both drunk n wished death on him.