Due to straighten my hair it is very dry and brittle. My hair is past my shoulders but I have some fly aways or something like that. On the top of my head I have these little hairs everywhere that stick up, they are short and look like little spikey hair, its driving me nuts. What can I do about this, I have tried hair spray, gel etc to keep them down but nothing works. I think it must be pieces of my hair that break off or something. Its embarrassing to me.