Hey, I'm Lyon I'm 21 and my ex girlfreind is 17. I broke up with her in August for various reasons. Recently started tlkin again an decided to give it another go. I recently found out that when she started seeing me again she was in a relationship already. I found out from the guy because, I was curious to who he was. She has admitted to us both what she has done. Hes gone his separate way I wanted to go my separate way but she keeps ringing me an begging for us to give it another go. I also found from both the guy and her that while she was with the other guy she was willingly having sex regurarly but, if I remember when we were together she was never keen and it happen vere why rarely. Now I have decided to take things slow with her but, I feel if I am not getting sex from her regurarly I will leave. I also speak to after she's been out after a night and she says what she doesn't do but then I find pics of her bent over by guys. I confront her an let her no I'm aware and she replies if I'm close to them then I will dance sexy with them but, then when it's the other way round I get a mouthfull

Isn't it illegal to have sex with her?

Were in the Uk love the age is 16 an she's 18 in two months. Answere my question somebody

It sounds as if she is content to play the field.

She does not sound like a young woman who is committed to being with one person.

I do not think breaking up with someone because they aren't putting out as much as you would like indicates much of a commitment on your behalf either.

Perhaps you never should have reconciled,it does not sound as if you have much of a future.

She is young and immature, you are being played my friend. Stop it now, or let it be known she will keep doing this.

Why are you wasting your time going back to someone who didn't care enough for you in the first place?

You should have done what the other guy did and go your own way and ignored her begging. She is to needy, and that can't be fun, so move on, and don't look back.

What do you expect from a young female who needs attention any way she can get it? Leave it alone.

Stop it. Your going to go back with her but if your not getting yours you'll walk away.

Well I don't know about anyone else but that's a surefire way to get me into bed!

Leave her alone, your only going to hurt each other.

You're going back because it is comfortable to you.

She is just keeping you on the sidelines.

Find someone who you feel love with... someone older might help.

You are afraid of her actions and you are not going to trust her ever. Because that's what she is showing to you.immaturity in her actions.she is very young to think right. If you don't want to have a relationship with trust problems and full of jealousy than don't think twice. Stay away from her. She is not thinking for something serious at all. Better for you to forget about her. I would do it if I was you.

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My ex girlfreind and I started seeing each other agen but, I then found out that she was in a relationship already. Im trying tomove on. This was a big shock to me so, I called the guy we both talked mainly about her... was that a wrong move to do? Now my ex is now chatting to my best friend who's a girl... wot should I do? Because, now its like my best friends taking sides with my ex

Not only was it wrong, but you opened up a can of worms that you can't close. Why didn't you just leave her alone? Now you have everyone in your business.

Your only solution is to leave them all alone.