Can't get my boyfriend's sex drive up
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. We have been living together for at least one year. I am his first sexual partner. We used to have sex almost daily, but lately it's once in a few months, and I have a very high sex drive. He doesn't do anything all day, he quit school (college) and hasn't really tried to get a job. He stays home all day and plays online, the only time he leaves the house is when I make him go shopping with me or when he's going to his magic the gathering card game club. I love him, and he loves me (as far as I can tell) but I can't get his sex drive to go up. When I try to turn him on, he pushes me away I've tried everything I can think of, vitamins that increase all things sexual in a man (making him take them), wearing sexy things, working out to make myself more attractive to him, playing his games with him, buying porn. But nothing works, he says it's not me, and he says he's frustrated because I'm frustrated. I am just so confused and really wish that I could make him want to have sex with me. He is not cheating on me, I am sure of it. He stays home all day, and I've come home early from work a few times unannounced to check and he's always playing online or sleeping during the day. I am tired of the excuses and want to know if there's anything that I haven't thought of to try...