Okay so when I was 7 my dad died in a car accident and when I was 14 my step dad died from a brain anyrism (sp) anyway I dream about them at least once a month and we have full conversations and everything. Well I have this thing about karma. I believe in it but lately its been getting out of hand. When my boyfriend started cheating on me and I found out about it... I told him it would come back times ten. Well it did. A gas station we went to charged his account 100 dollars over drawing it. And then his windshield shattered for no reason and his axel on his car fell apart. Well yesterday I asked him if he had been good while I was at work and he said yes but I had this feeling he hadn't been and then on the way home his tire went flat and he ran out of gas in the middle of knowhere.. I found out this morning.. he had talked to his ex on the house phone..

Either he has bad karma.. or something else is at play here... nothing happens until he's done something to hurt me..

Ironic?

Actually, the concept you describe is more akin to the traditional Polynesian concept of "Mana" than "Karma" in Hindu and Buddhist traditions. Although a lot of people use "karma" in the sense you describe, the "Earl" form of karma. ;) Or down in Mexico they might say you (perhaps inadvertantly) gave him the "malo de ojo." Though that is usually bad luck deriving from someone's envy, it could also mean bad luck deriving from someone's hurt.

Maybe you should consider going up to him the next time you see him and saying, "You've suffered enough. You're free." If for whatever reason the Universe is listening to the things you say to him (as it seemed to last time), it couldn't hurt.