I am an attractive girl and I have a problem. I am a little scared to have sex... I want to have it so bad and the opportunity has come up many times... what should I do?? I want to have sex but I just don't no:-(

If you're afraid then you're obviously not ready.

What's the rush? Wait until it feels right, with the right person, not just because of the act itself.

Trust me, sex is so much better when you're older and ready for all the consequences.

I agree with Alten weg... If you are scared... the it's best to wait. And it's worth the wait too. I mean what's the rush... if you do have sex--make sure the guy is really worth it or you will be regreting it the REST OF YOUR LIFE. Real talk.

-Goldy <3

I lost my virginity when I was just 13 and that was 7years ago and I still regret it now. Trust me there's no need to rush. Why do you want it so badly? If its because everybody else is doing it then that's the wrong reason. Trust me its worth the wait.

Just like everyone else said if you are scared then don't do it. And do not let some idiot guy pressure you in to it. When you are ready you will know.

The oppurtunity to have sex will pop up ALL AROUND YOU, you can't just accept it because your horny... Like many others have stated, sex is funner when your having it with someone you really care about and love (they feel that way too) not just to "do it", plus, I have a feeling your too young to have sex anyway... enjoy life!

If you don't know, or if you are having any doubts what-so-ever, then you're definitely not ready to have sex.

When you eventually do want to have sex, you will know about it!

Don't make the mistake I did. Wait until you are truly ready, and in a trusting relationship. It will feel much more meaningful- and a little more pleasurable (: