Can I ask you a question me and ex got back together after 4 months and we both graduated and he moved to cali with me a month later he went back to Texas because problems over there and him and my mom got into it a lot. So he broke up with me. What I don't understand is that he tells me he don't care what I do but yet he tells me he rather have me play with myself then have sex with anyone else. And if I do have sex with someone else that he is going to do it too. He never stay friends with his exs but we are still friends and he told me 4 days ago that we are not going to get back together. But then tells me he loves me. What's going on? I have treated him bad so he does it back to me. He doesn't want to stay on the phone with me for a long time. Less then an hour. And he met my family and I talked to him mom and he interduced me to his mom as his wife he wanted to take me with him but plans changed. I want to be with him. I really love him. What do I do?

Sounds like he doesn't really know what to do. When family is involved it can get complicated sometimes. He may rrally care, but if he wanted to be with you he would be with you. As far as the sex thing, that's an insecurity thing. He's not sure what he wants and he for sure doesn't want you to be with someone else in the meantime until he decides what he wants to do. Tough decision, if you love him enough you need to make it known and tell him he needs to decide what he wants, or else you'll be doing this back and forth for a while. In the end someone will get hurt, my guess would be it's not going to be him.

Girl move on,life is too short not to know what u want ,don't wait for him when he come back you decide if you want to be with him or not just express your feelings to him if he don't compromise with the way u feel ,he don't care about you ,so do what's best for you.

Sounds like he's got mad jealousy issues, its like, he don't want to be with you but yet he don't want you to be with anyone else, one of my friends is kind of in the same spot, except she took him back and now he treats her like crap until she tells him she's going to break up with him and then he kisses her butt for a few days and then turns right back into a jerk, if I was u, id just move on and forget all about him, if he wanted to be with you that bad he would b

It sounds to me like he wants his cake and he wants to eat it to. He might have loved you in the past but he doesn't love you enough anymore to be with you. It may be hard for him to let you go completely and you being so wiling to communicate with him after he dumped you is making things really confusing.

He dumped you. That means he doesn't want to be with you anymore.

If he says he will sleep with someone else if you do he is really immature and is probably already sleeping with other girls.

Sometimes you really cannot be friends with your ex's. I believe this is one of those times. I'd end all communication with him.